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Ditching the Diamond Handcuffs: Why Marriage Isn't the Only Path to Happiness

A huge belief or idea in society is the need to be married and have kids. This idea was introduced when I was watching a show called Brooklyn 99, a show about the police station where a detective named Rosa is someone who challenges societal norms. She is bisexual and does not think that to be happy, she needs to be in a relationship. I also had an idea before that to be happy or fulfilled, you first make a career until the late 20s, then get married and have a family, or get married in the mid-20s.  Rosa has a close-knit group of friends within the precinct who act as her chosen family. They celebrate her achievements, support her through tough times, and enjoy her company. This strong bond provides a sense of belonging. She is a highly skilled detective who takes pride in her work. Solving cases and catching criminals brings her a sense of accomplishment and purpose. The show portrays her as confident and content in her career. Brooklyn Nine-Nine portrays Rosa as a happy and wel...